Thursday, February 20, 2014

mission team // step program trip



We are so glad to be able to write about the first team we've planned a trip for and hosted ourselves in Honduras! Funny enough, it actually happened to be a team that currently lives in Honduras already. Yes, you read that right!

We met our friends Jim and Sonia Bridge at our training in Colorado before we moved to Honduras, and we were thrilled to find out that they were also moving to Honduras! They live in the capital city of Tegucigalpa, and their ministry is serving as the leaders of the STEP program here in Honduras that is part of the BIC churches. It is a program that designs team internships to give young adults realistic, intensive and developmental cross-cultural ministry experience for six months. As the new leaders of this program for the first time this year, Jim and Sonia have been searching earnestly for opportunities for their participants to learn and serve throughout all different parts of Honduras, and it just so happens that we live in a very different part of Honduras than them. We were so glad that we were able to help host one of their many trips they will take to the edges of Honduras and show them around the ministries that we have going on here in Choluteca.

This first team that Jim & Sonia are hosting consists of all girls, ages 18-21. They all traveled down from Tegucigalpa last Sunday, and we enjoyed having them serve at the children's nutrition clinic and the family home orphanage during the five days that they were here. This was their first time serving in a more rural Honduran setting as a team, which gave them new experiences and challenges to work through. They were certainly a blessing to the under-staffed CDI, and prepared several fun activities for the the children to do! The kids, in combination with the much hotter 100F degree days, definitely wore out the Steppers by the end of each day.

Along with serving at both children's ministries, we were able to give the group a tour of other projects that Iglesia Gran Comision Choluteca has, including the Casa Hogar Vida community, the block factory, the CHV coffee brand roasting site, the "Manualidades" crafts store, and one of the rural communities that the church is doing a lot of outreach in, Las Bresas.

Here are some wonderful pictures from the week, documented by the very talented Nikki, who is one of the participants in the program. Enjoy!



Everyone needing hugs at once. :) 
The girls showed the kids how to make paper frogs that jump!
We all helped serve lunch for the kids each day!
Bryan is pretty awesome at soccer!
All of the Family Home kids got involved in the soccer game -- 
even the little twins who kept running into each other!
Vilma, the oldest at the Family Home, with her balloon flower. 
Lesley loving, but being a little afraid of, Bryan making his own balloon design!
Elias, the youngest at the Family Home, with his awesome dino face paint!
Water balloons at the family home for a hot, hot day!


Children in the rural community we visited using old bed springs as a trampoline. 
Visiting one of the families that the church here has built a strong structure home for. 

Visiting the Casa Hogar Vida coffee brand roasting site. 





Saturday, February 15, 2014

ask anything // round 4: kids edition





The awesome children from our sending church, New Life Christian Fellowship in Blacksburg, VA, recently sent us letters to let us know that we were thought about as their missionaries. They spent the last couple of weeks learning about Acts 1:8 and what it means to be a missionary. We were very encouraged by these sweet letters, and thrilled that the kids had an avenue to ask what questions they have. So, may we present to you, our first Ask Anything: Kids Edition from NLCF Kids!


1 // Question: from Dawson 


1 // Answer: Most people in Honduras eat a lot of rice, beans, eggs, avocados and tortillas. They also eat a lot of plantains, which look a lot like bananas but are eaten like a vegetable! You have to cook plantains before you can eat them. They are very yummy! If you wanted to have a special meal here, you might have a whole fried fish (with the head still on it and everything!) and pickled onions and jalapeno peppers and cabbage. Here's a picture of plantains for you: (the right side is what they look like after they've been cooked)



2 // Question: from Hayli 


2 // Answer: Lesley's favorite colors are purple and gray. Jamey's favorite color is light blue. But we also wear a whole lot of orange and maroon. Go Hokies!

3 // Question: from Sydney 


3 // Answer: Right now, we are spending a lot of time taking classes to learn Spanish so that we'll be able to talk to everyone better. We have a teacher that comes to our house every afternoon to help us. Lesley also goes to play with kids at an orphanage and a children's nutrition clinic where kids are given good meals to make them be healthy and where they learn about Jesus. There are lots of kids and sometimes there isn't enough people to play with them all, so Lesley goes to help! Jamey does work to help make sure that people are going to get clean water so they don't get sick. We also do a lot of things with our church!



4 //Question: from Maggie


4 // Answer: Maggie, in Honduras, people do a lot of things differently than in the United States, like wash their clothes without a washing machine, and they don't have dryers for their clothes. Some people have to live in houses made out of sticks and plastic tarps with dirt floors and no electricity because they can't afford a house with strong walls, windows, a roof, and a floor. Also in Honduras, you can't drink the water that comes out of the sink in your house because it's not clean enough to be healthy for you. So you have to buy clean, healthy water at the store to bring home for drinking and cooking. We have to go buy more water lots of times every week. 

5 // Question: from Sydney 


5 // Answer: Lesley really loves to take pictures and to cook. Cooking is her very favorite thing to do and she loves finding new things to try to make all the time. Cooking has been very different for her in Honduras though, because they have a lot of different foods. Jamey's favorite activities are running and learning Spanish! 

6 // Question: from Will 


6 // Answer: It is very hot here all year long! The city that we live in is about one hour away from the beach and it's usually 95 degrees or hotter every day, and a lot of people don't have air conditioning. It is also very dry right now. It only rains here during a couple months in the year. So that makes everything very, very dusty! You have to clean a lot more here. 


7 // Question: from Josie



7 // Answer: Hi Josie! To say "hello" in Spanish, you say "Hola!" except you don't say any "H" sounds in Spanish. To say "goodbye" in Spanish, you would say "Adios!". To say "Good Morning" in Spanish, you would say "Buenos dias!".


8 // Question: from Tyler



8 // Answer: Yes, Tyler, the money is different here in Honduras! Honduran money is called "Lempiras". It takes about 20 lempiras to make 1 U.S. Dollar. Here's a picture of it for you:




9 // Question: from Hayli 



9 // Answer:  Hayli, there are different ways that we tell people about God here. We invite some people to our church and they hear the message of the Gospel while they listen to the sermon. Sometimes we go out to different communities around the city and share about Jesus with people individually. A lot of people here believe that they have to do enough good things to go to heaven and they are not saved by the Grace of Jesus. We share with them what God has told us, that it is only by our faith in Jesus and knowing that he forgave all of our sins by dying on the cross that gets us to heaven and that we are saved by Grace.


And just to get a peek at how adorable our letters were, here is one of the whole letters we got. It doesn't get much more adorable than this!





Sunday, February 2, 2014

highlight // meet miriam





1 // Who is Miriam?

Miriam is our wonderful teacher for our Spanish language classes and she's had lots of teaching experience before us. She's one busy lady, and we love just talking with her & hearing her stories. She's also become one of our best friends here in Choluteca as we've gotten to know her even more!

2 // Can you tell us more about her? 

Sure! Miriam is 64 years old and has been teaching for a long time, including previously teaching English at the CDI Nutrition Clinic here in Choluteca, being a private tutor in English for families, and more. Through tutoring, Miriam realized that she loves this teaching format, rather than full classroom teaching, much more in order to personally have conversations with each of her students and be able to constantly check their grammar and pronunciation personally. Miriam is a widow, and has five grown children, and seven grandchildren. We're blessed to know some of them too!

3 // She's a busy lady, huh? What makes you say that?

We're amazed at how much our dear friend Miriam gets done in a day. She's very busy with a full home of family members, taking care of the woman who served as her nanny growing up full time (who is now 95 years old and has no family of her own to care for her), and working with our church, Iglesia Gran Comision Choluteca, in reaching out to individuals who have HIV or who have been affected by family members who do. Miriam is also involved in other ministries that the church does, including acting in some of the drama plays and skits whenever there is a part for her! She loves it. And this is ALL on top of teaching us three hours a day!

4 // How did Miriam learn English herself?

Miriam told us the story of her coming to learn English, and she told us that when she was seventeen, and growing up in Tegucigalpa, Honduras, she made the decision to go to a special school to learn English. A few friends of hers decided to go too, and the program took about two years to complete. We asked her if she was glad that she decided to learn English, and she said to us that she is glad because she has been able to help other people learn English, but she doesn't always have people to practice her English with to keep it well in her mind. (The "if you don't use it, you lose it" idea.) We told her very early that she would get plenty of practice with using her English by teaching us, because when we first arrived we knew very, very little Spanish. We relied on Miriam being able to explain things to us, and receive instruction for lessons, in English!

Quick snapshot of Jamey & Miriam in class together at our apartment!

5 // What is your favorite thing about Miriam?

Our favorite thing about Miriam is how comfortable she feels talking with us about anything. She is willing to answer any question we have for her, whether it is about Spanish grammar, phrases that are used common, or even just questions about the Honduran culture. Miriam has been the one to tell us where we can find things here, given Lesley advice for working with the children at the church's projects, and even helped give us advice on selecting, using, and cooking new produce and foods that we aren't used to. She has been a wonderful blessing to our lives every day!

6 // What is her favorite thing about you guys?

Miriam tells us constantly that her very favorite thing about us is that we are able to laugh so much together, even while we are having classes with her. She loves to laugh about stories we tell each other, about our mispronunciations in Spanish that have us saying different words than what we intended, and even about the funny relationship Jamey & I have while being classmates. We have our own private jokes that come out of this language learning sessions, and Miriam tells us that she tries to tell them to other people, and then she'll realize that it was simply a "you had to be there" kind of thing. Miriam will leave with an extra skip in her step on the days that we have laughed extra and says to us, "Okay! I will see you tomorrow! And we will laugh more!". She also regularly tells us that she is glad to have classes with us because it makes her use her brain very actively. She believes that we're helping her to not lose her memory when she is older.

7 // How can we be praying for Miriam personally?

Since Miriam is someone who is very near and dear to our hearts, we would like to ask that our ministry team and blog readers remember to lift Miriam and her family up in prayer. Miriam is a breast cancer survivor, who has been in remission for about a year now, but she has to continue to take chemo pills for five years. Her health is something that is constantly being monitored and we pray that she will remain in good health for many years to come. If her personality has anything to do with it though, she will be around for a very long time because we know that Miriam has so much more she still wants to do in this world. She's a go-getter! Also, several other members of Miriam's extended family have been suffering from cancer, including her 2-year-old granddaughter. Would you join us in prayer for this sweet little angel? She had surgery to remove the tumor in her kidney several weeks ago, and the doctors have been doing a lot to help her. They found out recently that she will not have to go through as much chemotherapy treatments as they had originally thought she would. We are so grateful for that! She starts chemotherapy treatments tomorrow, on her 3rd birthday.


Friday, January 24, 2014

ask anything // round 3




Q // What's the best food you've eaten so far?
A // Honduran iced tea --  it must have lemon in it here! It's almost an Arnold Palmer; plantains made into fries (in some magical way that Lesley hasn't figured out yet); pineapple juice; and definitely, definitely baleadas! (They are thick flour tortillas with mashed beans, cheese & butter inside, and we take ours with chicken and chismol inside too.) Our friend Miguel, who is a deacon at the church in Danli, and his wife make really amazing baleadas at their own store!


Q // Are you driving yet? How are you adjusting to the fumes of the vehicles?
A // Yes! Jamey has been driving a few days a week since just a couple weeks in. Lesley hasn't given it a try yet -- it's pretty intimidating! Drivers here follow few road rules, pass frequently even on dangerous roads, and use their horns for every kind of road communication. We actually are very pleasantly surprised when we see a turn signal being used. Also, roundabouts are common, with usually six different roads/lanes coming into the roundabout, but no one really knows how to use them! Tricky stuff. And with the fumes of the vehicles (since routine maintenance on vehicles is not done here) are honestly what Honduras smells like to us -- as funny as that sounds! We smelt it all getting right off the plane, and we could've known we were back in Honduras being blindfolded.

Jamey getting driving experience in Honduras.

Q // What is the hardest thing to adjust to?
A // Everything that you try to do is just harder or a much longer process here. Now that's a big statement, but let us explain: after living in a world full of modern conveniences and efficiency, we are amazed at how much time is taken doing things that were menial to us before. There are significantly less conveniences in even daily things like cooking or cleaning -- now we don't even have things as simple as chicken broth, canned tomatoes, or the ability to cook with water from the tap. Every single step must be made from scratch and one meal alone could take hours of preparation. We also only have a one-sided tiny basin of a kitchen sink, where we can barely wash a pot by itself. Things that in the States we would only normally clean once a week, suddenly have to be done every other day and in some cases daily. Think about your normal "spring cleaning" chores, like giving the windows a good wash. If we go too long without doing that here, we wouldn't be able to see through them! It's still hard for us to adjust to things taking much more of our time, and reevaluating what we actually might be able to accomplish in just one day. That's a tough one for us! Even with business related tasks, things tend to take longer to accomplish simply because Hondurans are more relational people and the relationship takes precedence over the task almost always.  Not to say that being more relational is a bad thing, but it is different in the U.S. where efficiency is

Also, we are learning Spanish as quickly as we can manage, but there is still both some language and cultural barriers for us. It's hard for us to adjust to not being completely self-sufficient. It all is not something we'd ever really had to be concerned with so, so much before moving here.

(And something funny that we're still getting used to: it being very difficult to hang anything on cinder block walls.)


Q // Do you get strange looks?
A // Yes, most definitely. But at least at our church, nearby grocery store, and areas we go often, the more people see us, the more they get used to us.


Q // What is the exchange rate to US dollars?
A // Honduran currency is called lempiras. When we first moved here, the exchange rate was roughly 20.5 lempiras to one U.S. dollar. Today, the exchange rate is roughly 20 lempiras to one U.S. dollar. Pictured below is an example of a Honduran bill.

One L100 limpera is almost exactly $5 U.S. Dollars.  

Q // Have you compared the prices of food and other shopping to U.S. prices?
A // The prices of foods vary some even across the U.S., but to give you some comparison, we'll list some of our food prices!

The produce roundup:
Tomatoes (only roma variety is available) are L8.7 ($0.44) per pound. Cucumbers are L4.4 ($0.22) each -- which is good because they are Lesley's favorite! Onions are L16.3 ($0.82) a pound. Apples are L26.9 ($1.35) per pound.

Takeaway: produce is inexpensive in Honduras, which is good. However, many people do not have the means to preserve or save these fresh ingredients for very long, and they go to waste even more quickly in the hot 95 degree weather.

Think about this:
One liter of milk is L26 ($1.30) -- so that's roughly $5.20 a gallon. But a 3 liter of Coca Cola is L32 ($1.60). The cheapest loaf of bread is L33 ($1.65).  Prepackaged flour tortillas are L24.2 ($1.21) for a pack of 5. Vegetable oil is L41.58 ($2.08) for 25 ounces. Lard is L32.2 ($1.61) for 35 ounces.

Takeaway: Soda costs dramatically less (as in for 3 liters of each, it's $2.50 more for milk) than milk, so parents purchase soda (or just plain sugar and water) to try to fill up their childrens bellies. They believe that it is sustaining them, but in reality it only causes them to be both malnourished and have their baby teeth rotting out. Also, in the southern part of Honduras, where we live, most everyone eats corn tortillas (made of only cornmeal and water) because cornmeal costs so much less than flour to make this very important part of Honduran meals. And, as you can imagine, a lot of people cook solely with lard instead of oil because it too is less expensive.

Our favorites from back home:
Ground beef is L52.7 ($2.64) per pound. Butter is L78.7 ($3.94) for a regular pack of 4 sticks (2 cups) of butter. Mozzarella cheese is L70 ($3.51) for 8 ounces. Peanut butter is L79.4 ($3.98) for a 12 oz jar. Canned goods (like a can of mixed veggies) are L26.8 ($1.34).

Takeaway:  With our "normals" & favorites from back home, we're having to either give them up or buy and use them very sparingly. This is hard for us in a lot of ways -- automatically tossing out every recipe we had before that used any amount of cheese, butter, or cream (which you can't find here or is imported so it's expensive) is a lot of recipes gone!! We're also having to figure out how to stretch out any meat that we buy between meals. Now, as the head chef of the family, Lesley feels the burden/loss of most of these changes, but for Jamey is biggest struggle is the peanut butter... he used to go through a jar of peanut butter in a week! Can't do that now.

Q // Where do you go grocery shopping?
A // We've tried a few places, but for cost and because we don't have a car, we've found it best to regularly shop at the grocery store just two doors down from our apartment building. It's called Maxi Despensa, and it's owned by the Walmart Cooperation. It's usually pretty crowded and a basic style store, but once we learned when to go there & some cultural customs, we've become really used to it. But if you were to visit, you would have to be prepared for a few things: (a) just because an item was there a day or even a few hours ago, doesn't mean it will ever be there again in the near future; (b) personal space is not something you're allowed at the supermarket -- it's best to get one of the little baskets that roll (instead of a cart) so you can even maneuver around the store because people will not let you by!

Our grocery store just steps away from our apartment!
Q // Can you receive care packages? What would you like to receive in them? 
A // Yes we can, and thank you for asking! It does take anywhere from two weeks to one month, depending, for a package to arrive here. We always welcome care packages of items we either can't find here (like spices) or that are very expensive here (like deodorant). For specific (and important) mailing instructions or an updated items list, please contact us personally!


Q // What's it feel like right now to be learning a new language?
A // Language learning is such a unique new experience for us! It's a wonderful feeling to be able to use what you are learning immediately; it certainly gives you a lot more incentive to learn it when you know it will be immediately applicable to your everyday life. (And it's way more fun to have our own personal class with an awesome teacher than the way we first tried to learn in it back in high school!). There is also a great, great joy that comes over someone's face when being able to use their native language when speaking with them. Even if they are bilingual friends who know English, we can still tell that words in Spanish still hold more real meaning for them. And we understand that vice versa. We've had time to really experience the words we use first hand over our entire lives. We automatically understand meaning when it is said in our native tongue.

The sometimes frustrating part for us is consistently finding instances where things don't translate or there just isn't a word for what we are describing. We have over a million words in the English language and sometimes that doesn't even feel like enough to fully express ourselves. So we're disappointed when words we use often don't have a Spanish equivalent -- especially for storytellers like us! Sometimes the same ol' simple words just don't cut it. Hopefully our body language helps get the point across when words can't. :)

On the flip side, we now have some words that have been permanently adopted to our vocabulary, even when speaking in English just because we feel like they are the best word in that instance! For example, "limon" is the Spanish word for "lemon" but all of the lemons in Central America are green... and their taste is legitimately a cross between a lemon and a lime. Therefore, we consider no other name to be appropriate for this cross-breed of a fruit! Also, the word for "white person" or "North American" is "gringo". It's become such a heavily used word for us here, and the word implies so much more understanding than just the literal translation, that we'll also probably always keep this word, too!


Q // Do you have bugs or other critters in your house?
A // Yes, we sure do, but thankfully by the grace of God we are being eased into that transition by currently living on the second floor of an apartment building! So, in our second floor apartment, we have hundreds of little ants that we fight with every day (that are behind the cabinets, in the shower, in the sinks, on the counters, coming in from the roof & windows, you name it!); we also have spiders who make so many webs constantly, which draw in these little bitty black bagworms that feed off spiderwebs & fabric fibers and make cocoons all over the walls, corners, and crannies. There have also been scary giant Latin American sized cockroaches living under our stove at times, and bats that live in the roof above all of the apartments. Our neighbors have also had one gecko, but we haven't seen (key word: seen) any in our apartment yet. We've also been prepared that once we move into a single level house in a few months, there are great chances that we'll still have all of those same things, but also many more geckos and maybe even scorpions and more. Oh happy day!


Q // Can you show us some more pictures of kids that you've fallen in love with already?*
A // Of course we can!! Sometimes all the pictures we take are of all of the adorable kiddos. Whoops, probably should start aiming the camera other directions pretty soon. We know there are so many other things you all are itching to get a glimpse at! But for now, please enjoy meeting some of Lesley's little friends:



(1) On the left are the little climbers -- especially the girl on the right, Melisa, who is seriously a monkey. She can climb absolutely anything in 2 seconds flat!
(2) In the middle picture is the always adorable, snaggle-toothed Bryan who was chowing down on a little early morning white guava. 
(3) On the right is Lesley's little permanent shadow from the CDI, Fernando. He's absolutely attached to Lesley, and his favorite thing to do is to play tickle monster chasing games. (Of course Lesley is always the tickle monster because he just wants to be tickled!). He also tried to get away with sitting on Lesley's lap during a church service, but eventually got sent to go be with his mom. :)

*disclaimer: the person who actually submitted that question was Lesley. She just wanted to put some adorable little faces on the blog. But can you really blame her?!